Friday, January 22, 2010

Updated Ultrasound #4 - Jan. 6, 2010


There are these surreal moments I have every once in a while. Today was another one of them. Saw this picture of Cap and thought - whoa - this is becoming more and more real everyday. Someone is going to call Asha "Mommy" and me "Daddy"... at least up and until he's in his teen's and just refers to us as the 'rents or jerks or whatever new-fandagled lingo the kids are going to be using a decade from now. Will he ever think we are cool? Or were cool? Are we cool? Say the word a couple more times "cool". Now it just sounds lame. Are we lame?

I digress. Plan this weekend is to start prepping wee-man's room. The theme you ask? African Safari. Oooooo. I know. ;)

Asha and Cap are doing awesome. Ash is amazing. Her body's aching but she's going about his like a woman on a mission. Objective - healthy and happy baby. I love you honey.

On another note - just wanted to say thank you to everyone for donating their kids things. It is so greatly appreciated. And those who have purchased things from our registry... We Love You. Thank you so so much.

Monday, January 18, 2010

She's Gorgeous


Ta da! Finally. It took a little poking and proding but Ash finally let me get a picture of her and the baby bump (who I'm still referring to as Captain until a more suitable name is determined).

Mommy-to-be and baby are doing great as you can clearly see from the picture.

What's next? Our Seemantham. What's this you ask??? Good question. Here's a bit of a breakdown. Its also called a "bangle" ceremony. Google it. Don't worry, I had to too.

"According to ancient scriptures, the soul enters the baby in the womb around the 20th week of pregnancy or so. Seemantham is a prayer for the arrival of a good soul into the womb of the mother and for her and the child's health.

From the day of formation in the mother's womb, a child grows in different steps, each within a stipulated timeframe. According to the Vedic scripts, the birth and death is a pre-planned one by the almighty. And as pre-planned, the child grows in a way that is linked to many factors, which include genetically considered factors such as features, intelligence, height, weight, etc.

Accordingly, though brain formation occurs much earlier, the memory cells are said to begin activities after the completion of seven months of pregnancy. Then onwards, a child can record the sounds and vibrations from the surroundings and hears every sound around it.

So as to format the brain in a fittest condition, they used to perform Vedic recitals of relics and verses named "Udhagasanthi" or "Uthakashanthi" Japam, a soft but powerful mantra recital for about 1 and a half hours. This specific function of Japam is to give a solid state of mind for the child to be born, a positive vibration from the recited Mantras that give enough strength to the child in the womb, and to create an atmosphere conducive to the earthly possessives on his / her birth.

This also increases the mental strength of the would-be mother, encouraging her, through the supportive gathering members blessing the child and mother for a normal delivery."

And what about the father? Dad gets no shout-outs. Proof again that women are clearly the more important sex.

Guys... we're playing second fiddle to a human being capable of creating life. Kind of makes one really feel inferior.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Prenatal Classes - Ready to be a parent?!?!

Is anyone every really ready?

If you have never done them and you stil managed to successfully birth a child (or five) - you are my hero. The primary thing I learned in attending this two-day crash course on preganacy, labour and raising a child is - I KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT PREGNANCY, LABOUR AND RAISING A CHILD. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD... I WANT TO NAME THE KID CAPTAIN.

Clearly I am not fit to be a parent. Thank the lord this kid is going to have Asha. That my friends is a "fit" parent. I'll end up being the ying to her yang.

So we ended up taking prenatal classes last weekend in Oakville (www.birthingandbabies.com). Yes I'm giving this lady a shout-out. The instructor / nurse was great. Informative, responsive, caring and truly believed in what she was doing. It drives faith that this process of birthing is actually humanly possible.

Couple other noted (mostly disturbing) facts from the course:
A Fundus is the top portion of the uterus. I'm easing you into this.
Episiotomy is a small surgical incision of the perineum made to enlarge the vaginal opening. Yup - that still makes me shudder. In layman's terms - its cutting the vagina. Oh my lord. Men - we should bow to women... for they truly are the better / tougher sex.
Baby's are really ugly when they are born. Those knitted baby-caps they get... that's because their head is frickin' deformed. No - not just because it looks cute.

Lastly: Our Established Labour Panic Routine Should Ash Panic
1. Establish eye-to-eye contact (I apologize for what I have done)
2. Hold your partner firmly (Close enough that she can only "dirty" box with me)
3. Breathe with your partner (Hee hee - whoooooooo - apparently this works)
4. Reassure your partner (That its not entirely my fault - it takes 2 to tango)
5. Ad Lib (Punch Rob and blame him for all of this)

Baby-bump picture coming soon.